We are also looking at redoing the kitchen. Just the wood choices are enough to drive me crazy. At one place alder wood is the lowest cost wood and at another it is the highest priced wood. Most offer fiber board cabinets with wood exteriors. Some offer solid wood cabinets and doors. The pricing makes no sense to me. At least I have the oven and dishwasher picked out. Picking out wood is like picking a new fridge, there were less choices 21 years ago when I picked out the last fridge.
Well I will try to sleep tonight.